Should I save my marriage you may have asked yourself. The pain of dealing with a breakup can be very real when you consider all your options. If children are involved or you are in the process of a divorce your options may even be more limited.

You wedding vows may be recent or seem like a distant memory. Regardless after exhausting all advice from friends and family your still at a loss as to what you should do. Even after taking advice from friends and family even a counselor seems to be out of the question.

Even if you thought there were infidelity issues you may have discovered a cheating spouse. No only were you informed by a friend but they were the one that confided in you that they were cheating. What will you do?

If the love or romance is gone should you separate and go you own ways? Have you been looking in forums for advice on how to save your marriage instead of seeking marriage help? If traditional marriage counseling is out of the question you should still seek marital help.

Can you discuss marital counseling with your spouse? You probably already know your alternatives. Make sure you examine all alternatives before seeking separation or divorce.