When I went to senior school, at the regular dances and discos me and my friends could usually be found glued to the back wall trying to muster up the courage to ask a girl for a dance. And as usual the night would end with me still firmly pressed up against that back wall.

Even though school and the associated social events seem like the ideal pick up scenario, socially, school crowds develop a pecking order very quickly and various groups have their own ‘clicks’ and this is how the different levels of social acceptance are formed. So depending on which group of friends you are with often determined your luck with the ladies.

One of the ‘Must Do’ things I forced myself to learn on the road to transforming myself from super dork to dating-king was to figure out just where are the best places to actually meet girls. Women love to go places, they really do! So let us figure out where they go and what situation is best to meet single girls.

Without meaning to sound too predictable, bars and night clubs are places frequented by single girls and would seem like the ideal place to meet someone. However, is it the ideal situation to assess potential love interests in crowded, noisy alcohol fueled venues? Besides having to compete with every other hormone raging young guy, we think there are far better places to meet someone to start a meaningful relationship with.

Shopping centers are another great location girls go to so they can relax and unwind with other girlfriends. I don’t think I have met a woman yet that hates shopping. We have learnt that timing is very important with this approach. Busier days such as weekends bring in groups of girls, however during the week days girls often shop alone and will tend to personalize their shopping and are more likely to buy lingerie and summer dresses for example. What better way to strike up a conversation that to offer to critique a pretty girls new wears.

Perfume stores are probably the easiest stores in the shopping centre to find. You will be able to smell the fragrance long before you locate the actual store. And if you can smell it, trust me, so can the women. The ladies adore all those little pre-packaged assortments like gels and lotions.

Coffee? – what better way to chat to a nice looking girl after a big day of bargain hunting. She will have plenty to chat about and you can offer to critique her new outfits she has just bought.

If you fancy yourself as an experienced book guru, you can show off your knowledge at the local book store. Girls like a man to show them the way and lead from the front so offer your thoughts and opinions regarding your experiences on various authors.

If you have been single for a long period of time and just can’t bring yourself to chat to girls this way, turn to technology. Online dating is now the most utilized form of match making in the world according to a recent publication on internet dating trends in Australia.

Whether you decide to end your singles status online or offline, do remember that women like to be made felt special, so any kind and non threatening advances will be welcomed, and at the very least you will get a smile and a thank you for your nice gestures.

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