Most guys dream to become alpha males, because the alpha male is thought to represent masculinity, he calls the shots, takes the leading role in most settings, and women simply love alpha males. An alpha male can pick and choose women at will, even his fellow guys find themselves at his beck and call.

Becoming an alpha male is simply a correction of mindset. Most people will tell you that to become an alpha male, you have to be handsome, tall, rich, and speak in a certain style. All these qualities are great because people generally are attracted to aesthetics, but my friend that is not what being an alpha male is all about. If you are a beta male or the guy in the background, or the guy that lives his chances to “fingers crossed”, becoming an alpha male who succeeds with everything in life including women is only a step away. The first question I will ask you is: are you good enough for yourself? If yes, then no woman is out of your league, but if no, then you need to first learn to appreciate yourself before the world will appreciate you.

Number 1 characteristic of an alpha male is confidence, and it is also the number 1 thing that women look out for in guys. Gaining confidence is a change of mindset, which you can easily achieve through self hypnosis. As an alpha male in the making you have to start making women perceive that you are sure of yourself and you know what you want. You have to take control of situations in a cool, calm, and calculated manner, don’t be all over the place. Taking the lead in most circumstances should be your game; even when you feel that the woman should take the lead, make her perceive that you are permitting her to do so. Not only will women love you for this type of behaviour, but mere mentioning of your name will command their respect.

Alpha males always use cocky humors around women. One thing most men don’t know is that women just like men are thrill seekers, but because of societal expectation of what a woman should be, try to be reserved about it. Face it, we all want great sex at the end of the day. If you are always suppressing that lion in you when you are with women, you will be boring because they will perceive you as trying to play women’s game. However, you should not be salacious either, get your balance of lines right and let your body language with calmness and confidence do the job for you. Don’t forget having her laughing or smiling all the way should be your goal. What women really want is a guy who is sensitive to their feelings but at the same time has that bad boy edge, which they find challenging and thrilling.

Insensitivity is commonly attributed to alpha males, but that is not usually the case. Many alpha males are very helpful, caring and compromising when need be. Those ones are the ideal alpha males because they have what it takes to date and marry any woman they want and still keep the relationship alive and sizzling all the way through.

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