Splitting from your lover can actually be avoided if one is aware of the signals of a breakup. Although all relationships differ from each other but the symptoms of trouble can be similar.

1) You are being ignored by your partner.

May be not speaking to each other is not the only point to look for. If your partner does not ask you how you are and where you are then it means that you are like two ships just passing by each other. Its now time to reevaluate your love life probably.

So stop here and contemplate why is your partner ignoring you? You probably forgot their birthday or some other special event? Are you loving your partner enough these days? Is there a possibility of they feeling neglected? These could be reactions to earlier events also. Although this may be their viewpoint, but you should be understanding enough and make them feel happy for the sake of love.

Surprise them with a meal out and talk about what the problem is. Try to ask them why are they grumpy and for heaven sake phrase that nicely? It could be a totally different problem that they are worried about and not your relationship. Communication is not always what it should be like in a relationship, but one has to talk. It might just lead you somewhere.

2) Your partner shows disinterest in seeing you or going out with you.

In case your loves becomes unavailable and too busy without any reason then your alarm buttons should ring. After all there is a reason behind such behavior and you need to know that. There is no need to become a doormat or a bedmat actually! Don’t make an excuse for not facing your girlfriend or boyfriend. In any case don’t be ignorant of these signs or the result could be a breakup letter.

3) Your partner is maintaining distance in the bedroom.

It may sound like only a three letter word, but sex can cause big problems. Asking a couple who has been together for long can probably tell that. At times family and other life issues can become blockages in the way of lovemaking. It’s true that the animal like attraction for it does not stay for long and so not making love every night might be ok. What is not ok is if that intimacy is not there for months. It is the shared emotions that keep people together. Hence a cuddle and hug are very important.

It’s important to understand when one’s partner is happy or sad. At times their mood might not be related to your actions but it’s a pointer of probable trouble. You need to be attentive of the signs and signals discussed above. Or else you might be single again and still guessing about what happened!

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